Is it inappropriate to invite an Italian man over for dinner with my family?
When you are dating an Italian man, and ask him to come over for dinner with your family, he will very likely think that you want to move the quality of your relationship up a notch or two. This is because any Italian girl or boy who has been going out with someone a few times and seriously thinks that he/she would like to turn her dating interest to a more “official” kind of relationship, if not a fully-fledged engagement, would first invite him/her over for dinner at his/her parents’ place, as a way of introduce her/his dating friend to them and see their opinion (and eventual approval). Even if it’s not inappropriate at all to ask an Italian man to dine with your folks, no matter how many times you’ll tell him that “it’s just a dinner”, he will very likely think that by introducing him to your parents you seriously plan to move in with him or marry him in the not-so-distant future. Therefore if he is not reciprocating the feeling or he doesn’t want to feel under scrutiny (even if yo