Is it common for the Ox to go to the Mxs house?
• I go over to MM’s house frequently. One of his kids is the same age as mine and W and I do things together (movies, dinner with the kids, etc.) We have rarely been there alone together. Usually, he comes to my house (within walking distance of his). • Yes, I have been with my MM for almost a year and we do go to his house a lot together when his W is at work. The first time I went there it was really upsetting because I saw their wedding pictures and family pictures and it was just another reminder that I’m trying to break apart the life that they’re building together. I cried when we left his house because just the reality of seeing him and his wife’s home really hit hard. I remember even looking in her closet to see if she wore a smaller dress size than me and he thought I was crazy for doing that. But, I have been to their house many times, made love in their bed, and it gets a little less painless each time. • He invited me over while his wife was on vacation.But I didn’t go in.
