Is he cheating or am i being paranoied?
I think it’s time you ask your BF for the truth. It sounds like he might have been considering the idea of cheating or maybe let something slip with another girl that he regrets now. And you joking around about cheating might have brought up his guilt about the whole thing and that’s why he was crying. Next time he comes over, don’t let him kiss you or touch you, but ask him to sit down and be honest with you finally. Don’t accuse him of anything or talk in an accusing tone, but let him know that his crying the other day got you worried and the fact that a lot of girls are calling him all the time, and it’s girls you don’t know. I mean, it’s one thing if it’s his best friend that’s a girl that he’s known forever calling him, but another if complete stranger girls are calling him all throughout the night. Ask him to just be honest with you because that’s the point in being in a relationship, being completely honest with each other. What he says after that or does or how you respond will
Texting doesn’t equal cheating. He’s still allowed to have female friends. Sounds to me like he was genuinely hurt by the idea you thought he would cheat on you. It also seems he would try to hide the texts if he was cheating. You know how many texts he gets, who they’re from, and when he gets them, so he isn’t trying to hide it. That being said, you don’t trust him. Without trust, there is no relationship. I’d say it’s time to move on.
