Is being passive good? Is being aggressive bad?
being passive to the point that you are walked on is not good but being passive because you know the difference between what is important and what is not is good…..being aggressive to the point that you are stepping on people is not good but being aggressive to acheive a goal that requires this type of assertion is good…
Being passive is neither good nor bad. As being aggressive isn’t good or bad either. Be passive and you don’t get into trouble -that’s good. Be passive and you won’t achieve your goals -that’s bad. Be aggressive and you get what you want most of the time -that’s good but by being aggressive you can hurt a lot of people and make lots of enemies -not good. Therefore, the way to be is to have a balance in being passive and aggressive. Always use discretion and do what your conscience will allow you to live with.
Yes, and No, it depends on the situation, but being entirely either is never good, and, yes, there is a way to be neither, or both, depending on the way u think of it. take this example: You know of a local X dealer who secretely laces his **** with PCP to sell it for more, as much as you know it isn’t your problem and don’t want to get involved, if you’re entirely passive, that dealer will probably kill a couple people in the process of trying to get himself rich, so u have a repsonsibility not to be passive and say something about it, but at the same time outright agression is stupid as well, so u find a mean, probably best to warn people away from him, and if he’s reasonable, and doesn’t carry weapons, to ask him to quit lacing **** cause It’ll hurt people, most conflicts arise out of ignorance, and missunderstandings, if you acknowledge they exist, and point them out, conflicts normally resolve themselves without the use of force, but otherwise, reactive agression is actually the b
