I’m ready to start corresponding with Russian women. Should I write to just one woman until I am sure, or correspond with many and narrow down the pool?
All of the dating sites recommend you correspond with a few women. This is sound advice, but some men believe they are somehow “cheating” by doing so. Others are so stricken by a single photo that they are madly in love before even the first letter. Some even think that a woman will be more interested in him because he is so “committed” after seeing just her photo. Think about it rationally and you’ll quickly realize all of these are false. A normal Russian woman cannot understand how a man could possibly pick a wife simply based on one photo. In fact, she will desire you much more if she knows that you wrote to many women but ultimately chose her. The important thing is being honest about what you are doing—that is in both your best interests, and in hers.
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