Im afraid to have my reading done..should people know whats going to happen in advance?
I imagine you are talking about a psychic reading. It is best to seek the services of someone you trust. You should be able to share your concerns ahead of time. The reader should be sensitive to your needs. Not all readings involve telling you about specific events. Sometimes it is about your tendencies, your energy and laying out a scenario that you have control over changing. Do someĀ research first so you know the questions you want to ask. Sometimes a psychic can give valuable insight into the way you operate. Rather than being fearful, you can learn something about yourself so you do not repeat the same mistakes and fall into the same traps. If the reading is good you will feel validated and empowered.
By all means get a reading when you feel changes are due, or when you want to know how a specific event is likely to turn out. Don’t, however, look at it in terms of finding out what is going to happen, but see it as a way of discovering what might be going to happen. That way, if you don’t like the idea of what the cards seem to be leaning towards, you can do something about it. Then, when you consult the cards again, you may find that, as a result of your actions, they are forecasting a much more positive conclusion to your dilemma. What the cards do is give you a sneak preview of what is likely to happen if you continue to behave in a certain way. If you ignore this advice, then what they have ‘predicted’ will almost certainly take place. However, if you do not wish your life to follow this route, you have the opportunity to change it as a result of what the cards have revealed to you.