Im 22, single, virgin, no GFs, no dating… am i a big loser….?
In the end, it doesn’t matter what strangers label you as, what matters is what you perceive yourself as. If you really do think that you are a big loser then perhaps you will have to do some thinking and change some aspects of your life. And if you are content, then good for you because you do what gives you that sense of purpose in life.
No. Like you said, you’ve just been busy. You worked hard through school and now have a good job. You are not a loser, you are a success! But maybe try to start getting involved in the relationship game during the weekends. A nice girlfriend can make you really happy. And it sounds like you’re on your way to being very successful, which is always attractive to a woman.
No you are not a loser. All though I must say that when people reach that age with no experience people tend to really feel that way. If you want a girlfriend then what you need to do make time for your love life. Don’t be a work addict because it is just unattractive for women it shows you are never willing to spend time with her. Also start talking to many girls just do it. Get out of your shell and the more people you know the better. Also you can get a girl if you know how to make her FEEL attractive towards you.