If the child whines Mom says, Whats the rule about whining?
The child responds, You wont listen to me. Mom says, I will listen when you use your big girl voice. The child may need a couple reminders in the beginning. When your child does use her big girl voice, dont just say to yourself, Well its about time. Instead, tell your daughter, Wow, you are talking like a big girl. I understood everything you said. I like talking to you when you talk in your big girl voice. When you say something like this, you encourage your child which makes them feel good they will want to hear more encouraging words. Remember, you are always teaching your child something. Teach them what you really want them to know and do. Put a smile in your voice as you use encouragement.
