If lustful thoughts are wrong, what does that make crushes?
Great question- everyone gets crushes. Married people get crushes also. That is part of the test of adultery. It is normal to be attracted to other people and even like them- like a crush. A big part of crushes is flirting. Anyways crushes come and go. Millions of people act on the crush- only to destroy their marriage and realize that they love their spouse after all. Besides when we crush on someone- it is most likely a co-worker and we only know their work personality. Once we really get to know them- or give into the crush- we do not like them so much anyways. I always say that the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence. The flip side is that maybe the marriage is over. A crush may make one realize that they are no longer interested in their spouse. In this case, the proper procedure would be to leave the spouse and then pursue the crush. Another type of crush is a soul mate crush. For example: The father of my boyfriend from high school cheated on his mother. T
