I need help. How can a person tell if a white girl finds black men attractive?
I don’t exactly know why this is an issue. Men are men and women are women. Sexual orientation matters first, then character, which in a few instances you can pick up through indirect observation. Why can’t a straight women just find men in general desirable, without resorting to labels irrelevant to the person’s character? Perhaps the woman (or women) in question are just being heterosexual and it’s not a race issue at all. I haven’t a clue as to why it should be a factor at all. Perhaps viewing men as men (regardless of their genetic coding) is the problem here as this shouldn’t be an issue with you, especially if this is your GF. She’s with you. If this is a chick in which you don’t know or believe she’s your “type”, well, I guess you have to find out through asking directly or asking around.