I know that if a man gets his right ear pierced it means hes gay. But if a woman only wants one ear pierced (the cartilage), does it matter which one?
There is no sexual meaning attached to which ear a man has pierced. It’s an urban myth that changes with the locale. In one city I lived, some said a pierced left ear meant the guy is gay. In another where I lived, it was the right. I have worn an earring for 30 years and have listened to all kinds of such nonsense, so I can safely say that a guy wearing an earring means nothing to most people under 75, except for people who want to think there is some significance to it to help them insult one another.