I get the gist, but sometimes favors get left behind, and Id like to spend that money meaningfully. Can I donate to a charity instead?
Of course. You can print out scrolls describing the charity and the donation, tie them with ribbons, and place them at each seat. Some charities will even provide these announcements for you! For a small wedding, you might be able to make a modest personal donation in each attendee’s name. This type of “favor” is growing more popular. Read more about donating to charities.