I am worried that my vagina has been stretched by having a lot of sex, with a fair share of different partners over the years. How can I tell if I am not firm enough for my boyfriend?
Dinah answers: Vaginas come in different sizes, and your natural size will stay more or less that way, with a few exceptions. A woman who has never had sex may be a bit tighter before she has penetrative sex, but this change is not huge. Some girls will feel especially tight on their first time but that is because they are tensing their muscles. After natural childbirth the vagina will be stretched, but in the months that follow, the muscles should contract again and the vagina will go back to more or less its pre-birth size, even though the cervix will be reshaped and the lips may look different. A lot of women need to exercise these muscles to get the buoyancy back. With each childbirth the muscles get progressively weaker. Apart from childbirth, the feeling of looseness may be a factor of age, where the muscles may naturally decline, and so you may not feel the pressure the same way from your partner. Whatever the cause of the weakening, women need to learn pelvic floor exercises (K
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