I am to get married. Do I go in for a hymenoplasty at Chandigarh?
I come from a modern family in India. My father shifted to USA in 1965 and married my mother also an Indian by origin in the year 1978. I was born in Connecticut in 1986. In the USA I mostly had Americans (Whites) as friends and like most of my classmates, we did go out for dates. Though my father never liked my company with boys, my mother was very supportive. Just like some other teenage friends, I too had my ups and downs and had an abortion done at the age of 17 years. Anyone in USA would say I was a typical American teenager. In American society, loosing virginity before marriage does not come as a surprise anymore these days. Many women lose their virginities at an early age, more so in this modern world of ours. It doesn’t come as a surprise anymore that the girl a boy is marrying is most likely not a virgin. In “40 year old Virgin” the Movie, nobody believed that the main actress Andy is still a virgin. However, Virginity is, in some cultures (like Indian) , still considered a
