How to turn good man into chauvinist pig? Husband is too gentle and bedroom makes boring love?
Talk to your husband. Do not discuss this right before or right after making love though. However, talk to him and tell him what you like. Don’t tell him, I don’t like this or that. It wouldn’t hurt if you start out by asking him, “Honey, what are some of your fantasies? What really turns you on? What would you love to try that we haven’t?” Also, let him know that if doesn’t have to be embarrassed to tell you, regardless of how “Freaky” it may be. Let him know you are open to new ideas. Then take advantage of this and tell him what excites you or what you would like to try. Tell him you just want to make sure the fire stays burning between the two of you and you want to make sure HE doesn’t get bored. Men love it when they think you want to do whatever pleases them. Also, they love you being open about these things and most men listen because they want to complete satisfy the woman. I know my husband says pleasing me 100% is satisfaction for him. And don’t be afraid to add a little whe
