How to tell brother NOT to write a speech for wedding…?
Let him speak, the same thing happened at my friends wedding and she didnt walk her brother to speak because he is terrible at speeches. But his words actually brought tears down her eyes and then she hugged him and had a huge smile on her face. It was a lovely moment. Sometimes brothers can surprise you. Just tell him he has to keep it to a minimum of however long you choose. and maybe say he can do his speech while dinner is going as a toast! Explain to your other siblings the situation also and tell them that he really wants to and that you dont want to hurt their feelings, they will understand! Hes your brother, and although everyone else says to not let him, he is your brother and I know you love him. If he has been this sweet and sensitive to write a speech, then think of how hurt he will be. At least let him say it sometime at the wedding.
