How to Stop Violence
A woman cannot educate her husband. He will not change unless his current behaviour is no longer useful, but causes him trouble: if he faces penal or disciplinary action at work if the woman leaves him Then he makes an effort, for example: He joins an alcohol detoxification programme. He goes to counselling on male violence. He should have continued with his treatment for several months before the woman can risk living with him again. If he quits earlier, his next relapse is likely to be that much more severe.