How to stop cheating on my husband?
Assuming you really do want to stop, then just stop. You have been married 10 years, so presumably you are over 30 and my girl, it is time to start taking responsibility for yourself. It is not compulsory to get horizontal with every man who looks at you, and it is generally an indication that you don’t think much of yourself if you are willing to do this. Talk to a counsellor and figure out what is going on in you head, but stop seeing these men in the mean time. It is a miracle you have not contracted a social disease or been caught out doing this. Your last line seems to be the giveaway. These man ‘adore’ you. That is, they make you feel a lot better than you manage to make yourself feel. Whilever you are sleeping around, you will never work out how to feel good about yourself, for yourself. So stop now, take a long hard look at yourself and how your behaviour is potentially going to affect your husband (who I assume you love or you would not still be around after 10 years) and get
And your husband has stayed by your side all this time? He must love you an awful lot. Including that part of you that makes you so irresistable to other men. This may be highly sacriligious but I don’t care. It seems that a conventional monogamous marriage where both of you are faithful unto death does not suit you, and I wonder if that suits him (otherwise he would have divorced you long ago). Maybe it is time to sit down with your husband for a long talk, forget all the normal conventions and what other people expect of your marriage. It is your marriage, and how you make it work depends on you two alone. Firstly, how does he feel about having outside relationships with other women? If he has no objections to that, then maybe an open marriage would suit you both? You would love one another as always, be available to one another sexually as always, and be friends and companions as always. But neither of you would restrict sexual contact with others, nor be upset about them. Maybe if
There is no “how to stop cheating manuel”, you either are comfortable in your relationship or your not, end of story. That is not to say that your relationship is one that is held together by your infidelity and him as your security blanket. Not my cup of tea but that’s what makes the world go round. As a male I would be packed up and out the door if I knew what you were doing.
