How to really become self confident?
Self confidence is built, it can’t be created by affirmations nor it can be acquired over night. Self confidence is all about trusting your skills and convincing your subconscious mind that you are really worthy. If you lack certain skills then are likely to feel shaky and anxious during the situations that require these skills. If you developed the skills that you lack and started using them successfully your subconscious mind will start to trust you and you will start to feel confident. Think of the subconscious mind as someone standing aside and judging your actions, if he saw he performing well he won’t make you feel anxious the next time he sees you going through the same situation. Now what if that person standing aside saw you in the morning saying I like myself and in the evening shaking in front of a crowd? Won’t he make you feel guilty and ashamed? Step by step guide to becoming truly confident Step one, determine the problematic area: Contrary to common beliefs self confiden