How to overcome being too jealous and insecure with my boyfriend?
I’m sorry for writing a lot. But any how, we both agree that I am way too jealous and insecure. It has gotten very bad. I get jealous of both girls AND guys. And every time he leaves his house and he’ll tell me where he’s going I’ll silently worry for the rest of the night about what he could be REALLY doing. We’ve already sat down and talked about all of this, and he has assurred me many times I dont need to worry. I already know the reason why I’m like this. It’s because I’m insecure he’ll leave me for a prettier girl, I’ve been cheated on by another guy, and I have been back-stabbed by just about every single family member and friend in the past. I just want to know how to get over it and be comfortable with him & stop worrying! Because I know if I don’t put an end to this I’m just going to end up pushing him away. And it’s not only him I don’t trust, I don’t trust any of my family anymore, not even my own parents, and it’s been hard meeting new people. Please help?