How to meet geeky men?
My geeky girlfriend found me through her blogging. Geeky females have no trouble meeting geeky men, because of the sheer male-female ratio. Not only will you meet more men that you would by going to a club, but (1) you’ll be doing it on turf that permits you to be introverted, rather than extroverted, and (2) you’ll have a built-in filter that the people who are interested in you are interested in what you have to say. A blog is like a gigantic personal ad. Post stuff for a month to build up an archive, and then disseminate a post like this one (if perhaps not exactly like that one), and you’ll have your pick of the litter–50 responses in her case. The additional advantage is that if your soulmate doesn’t happen to live within a few miles of you, you’re more likely to meet him when you cast your net globally.