How to get rid of a stalker?
Before considering how to get rid of a stalker, you need to re-evaluate your surroundings. In other words, do you have any broken windows or any doors that don’t lock? Do you follow a very predictible schedule every day? Sounds like stating the obvious, but a lot of people overlook these sorts of things. Get the broken windows/locks fixed, vary your pattern and try to be less predictible, let somebody you know and are close to know that you are being stalked. Notify the local authorities. They will ask you for a statement, so be prepared to detail the incidents of stalking, who the person is (if you know them), and a description of the stalker (if you have a recent photo, even better). Once you have done that, a couple of things might happen. The police may simply pay your stalker a visit and have a nice chat with them. Sometimes that is all it takes. The police may also ask that you visit the courthouse and get a TRO (Temporary Restraining Order), or some other type of court issues pr
What to do if you have a stalker or someone who is showering you with unwanted affection Spell it out: If by text or email; be very clear of your intentions to cease the relationship. “Ged, your contact with me is unnecessary and unwanted, please do not text/email/call me again” Stop playing the game He will bore from your lack of interest, so simply refrain from replying to his texts or emails. Call the police: If at anytime your life is threatened do not be afraid to call the police. Keep all emails and text messages in a separate folder, as you may be required to testify in court and any evidence to help your case will be useful IMPORTANT: Don’t be a drama queen, and it is extremely harmful to a person’s reputation and career if you start calling wolf when it is very clear someone is just trying to be friendly! Before you take the drastic step of calling the police or any other authority, make damn sure you have excellent reasons to back up your complaints.
