How to get over insecurities from a previous relationship?
My boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot recently, and pretty much every fight we have has to do with his past or me not being able to trust him. I’ll explain the situation, sorry if it’s long but it’s kind of complicated. I have been with my boyfriend for nine months. We were bestfriends for years before we started dating. Before we got together I was in another relationship with my ex for just over two years. I met my ex when I was 16, and for the next two years of my life he put me through hell. When I first got with my ex I wasn’t the jealous type. I never wanted to go through his phone, email, text messages or anything. I trusted him to go out to clubs or parties without me because I wasn’t an insecure person. After nine months I found out that he cheated on me by receiving oral sex from another girl. I was devestated to find out about this because I trusted him and he took advantage of it. I was young and thought I was in love, so I decided to take him back and try to work thi
