How to deal with my trust issues in a relationship?
Communicate, let your guy know that you have these issues and that you are trying to work through them. Also remember he is not the one that hurt you so try not to judge him based on what someone else did. Take time to get to know the person so you know what his normal pattern of behavior is. Also look at the positives in that person and for the things that make him unique instead of dwelling on similarities. If there is anything that bothers you discuss it, and don’t settle for less. If you find something that is inexcusable, end it and move on.