How to deal with insecurity & jealousy?
It looks like someone has been watching a little too much TV or reading too many questions on here and that has caused you to start thinking; “could this happen to me?” No one is immune to the challenges of todays society but we all are different and unique in our own very special way and theres nothing to guarantee what happened to so and so will ever happen to you. In todays society where men and women talk to each other everyday is so common just like the sun rising every morning. That doesnt mean something is going to happen so quit reading into things and think its going to happen to you. If something is ever going to happen, all the worrying in the world wont stop it from happening. All you can do, my friend, is worry about yourself and the rest will take care of itself. Trust her fully until she gives you a real reason not to. Also a little jealousy in any relationship is good as it keeps one on his/her toes not too get too complacent and take things for granted, but too much ha
Firstly you are not a sad individual. I used to suffer jealousy really really badly. I stil suffer slightly but not half as bad as i used to. I had to realise that my partner was with me for a reason and that it was because he loved me. It took a long long time to sink in but it eventually did and we are fine. When i get that awful sicky feeling in my tummy through jealousy i just think he loves me, if he was going to leave me he would have done. The more confidence you have the more attractive you are to the opposite sex. Everyone loves a confident full of life person so just try and think to yourself ‘well what proof is there it won work out? Wheres the evidence she is going to leave’….eventually you can train your head to think less negative and more rational.
