How to acknowledge parents wedding anniversary when one has recently passed?
Yes, acknowledge the anniversary. Your Dad will remember it and don’t act as if the marriage never happened. Get him a nice card and ask him if you and your brother can take him out for dinner. Maybe get out the wedding pictures and let him tell you some stories. Be there for him because this will be the hardest anniversary.
There is no getting around this one it’s sad no matter what. The only thing to do is just acknowledge that you know what the day is. On your mom’s b’day buy a balloon and let it go up to heaven. Just act normal and NEVER feel uncomfortable talking about all the times you have had. Smile for her, laugh for her, and yourself. It will get better in time. So sorry for you.