How often will I meet with Katya before and after the birth?
I do not limit either telephone calls, e-mails, or visits before the birth. If we live nearby, we will meet several times before the birth. If we live a little further away, we will talk on the phone and meet 1-2 times in person. After the birth, I always visit at least once, and often more, especially if there are any postpartum issues such as breastfeeding difficulties. I will stay in touch via the phone or e-mail for a long time with a family that birthed with me, often for months. Q: How do doulas and dads work together?A: Doulas love to see caring, involved dads at the birth and at other times in the family’s life! During the birth, I may suggest to the dad how to best support the mom given the kind of labor she finds herself in. Often the mom will need two support people – the doula to rub the back, and the dad to be there for her by holding her hand or telling her how beautiful she is just then. However, should the birth prove long or other events interfere, the doula can take o
