How Much Lube To Use?
Entering a person quickly is often a recipe for sharp pain, so start out slow, gradual, and in touch with one another. If you use alcohol, speed, or any other substance that affects your sensations, skip it. You want to feel what’s going on so you can stay safe. You also want to be aroused – everything will feel better if you’re at least as turned on as you usually are when you have sex. If you’ve played with toys before attempting penetration with your partner’s penis, you’ll have a better chance of accommodating him; if not, play with fingers first, and wait for penis penetration until two or three fingers feel good. Keep adding lube as you add more fingers. Once he’s inside, keep letting him know how fast to go. Experienced anal players can have down-and-dirty, hard and fast anal intercourse – beginners are advised to take it slow until your body starts sending you signals that it wants more.
I use the dipstick method: pour lube into the orifice of your insert, then insert your pointing finger. It should come out coated generously with lube. If you haven’t over-lubed then there’s not going to be pools of lube leaking out when you hold the insert vertically. After you’ve lubed the insert as above, you apply a generous coating to your member, and get down to business. Back To Top Of Section • Can I Dilute The Lube With Water? Sure, go ahead. Consider that the lube should not be too runny (you’ll make a mess on the bed) or too thick (no fun plowing a pool of gummy). I personally prefer AstroGlide mixed with water, three portions of Astro and one portion of water. I prepare it ahead of the games in a squirt bottle and use that to add lube as needed. Back To Top Of Section • Can I Use Fleshlight With My Spouse/Partner? How? Yes sir! Its a lot of fun if your spouse is willing to play and into it. If you’re that lucky dude, then go for it, share the experience with her or him. The
