How many people believe in second chance in relationships?
I think there is not just ONE person who is right for you. I think you grow and evolve and mature and by doing so, you are more likely to a) attract a more mature and loving person and b) be able to make the new relationship better than the first one So,I guess, in a way, I do believe in second chances. I just think you can have the second chance with the same person… just give it time, don’t hurt or cheat on them and you will both hopefull grow and mature and be “the ONE” for each other.
Let me suggest this to get a good and true answer. Go to the local nursing home, and sit down and talk with an older person, who has had the chance to live and love. I will bet you that they will in a round about way tell you that they loved the person that they was married to, and that even though things got hard from time to time, they rode out the storm together, and that thier love floorished because they wanted to make the relationship last. Yes, sometimes the first try is the wrong person, but the elderly can actually give you a lot of information on how to make things work if you really want them to. My wife is a home care cna, and some of the stories that she has come home with are tremendous. The old really can teach the young when the young are willing to listen.