How is mediation different than divorce with attorneys?
Mediation is a way of coming to agreements in many different settings, not just in divorce. Divorce mediation is an alternative to using attorneys in the divorce process. When couples are represented by their individual attorneys, most of the decision making is based upon what the attorney thinks is best for their client and what the laws pertaining to divorce are. A mediator’s job is to facilitate agreements based upon what the couple wants and to present possible options based upon what the laws are. Therefore, decision making remains with the couple as to how the terms of their divorce are negotiated. • How can mediation work when couples are angry? In many cases, divorcing couples are angry at each other, which makes the prospect of agreeing on terms of divorce seem implausible. One of the benefits of mediation is that couples are able to process their emotions as they work toward agreeing on issues. When they are able to talk to and listen to each other with a trained facilitator
