How is discipline different for AP children?
A. Whereas mainstream discipline is often punitive, even including physical punishment, AP discipline is based on a foundation of a solid knowledge of the child, a respect for her feelings, and a gentle teaching of life’s important lessons. AP discipline is in some ways easier than mainstream discipline because the AP style greatly assists in setting up a wonderful relationship of trust between children and their parents. Parents and children know each other so well and develop a sensitivity to one another which facilitates honest and respectful interactions. Having said that, AP discipline can also be more effort on the part of the parents. Really taking the time to talk through issues or to stay and comfort a child during a tantrum takes more time and effort than a quick slap on the bottom. It does, however, have amazing rewards for both parents and children. Q.
