How in hell can i get through fathers day after losing my dad?
It’s very hard. My father died on Christmas day about two hours after leaving my home. Christmas is always very difficult. It’s been over 9 years now. Not a Christmas goes by that I don’t cry. My fathers BD is June 11th. I have been thinking of him for weeks now. I miss him so much. Death is something that we cannot control obviously. If you love GOD then lean on Him. Remember your father as he was when he was alive. However, if you feel like crying, then cry. There’s no reason to try and control your grief. If you don’t experience it, you surely will never get through it. Maybe on Fathers day you could visit his grave and tell him how much you love him still. Or you could view pictures and videos of him. I know that may make you sad, but it would also revive your memories of his life. I wish you well.
Maybe you know a dad who lost a child, and honour him as your surrogate dad on that day. It really is always better to give than to receive, because it is a privilege to be able to give. You will both feel different and will realise that you still have lots to give and do. Bless you – be strong girl!
