How important will the event causing the temper tantrum be in ten years?
• Remember, you are NOT a bad parent. • Think good thoughts about your child during the tantrum. When the Tantrum is Over • Do not yell. Let your child know he or she is still loved. • Never punish your child for a temper tantrum. • Help your child learn to name the feelings that caused the tantrum and to act out what she can do the next time she feels that way. • Help your child learn how to cool down through a quiet activity or a physical activity. • Practice these when your child is not upset.