How exactly does DOMA Section 3 harm children?
Among other things, DOMA harms families financially. It forces most to pay more in federal income taxes, and denies many benefits like health insurance and pensions. Parents report being unable to save money for college or retirement, having to work more hours, and choose inferior health plans. When spouses are unable to take Family Medical Leave to care for each other during a serious illness, the stress affects the whole family. When military spouses are unable to use education benefits, they cannot advance professionally and help their families. And all parents object to the message their children receive that their families are second-class.
