How does one become Goth?
There are no ceremonies or rituals that “make someone Goth” or initiate someone into Goth culture. In fact, many people aren’t even sure what it is that makes a person a “Goth”. Some people might listen to Goth music, but not dress Goth. Some may dress Goth, but not listen to the music. Even many Goths are unsure of what makes them Goths. Most generally agree that it is a combination of being a fan of the music, having a certain appearance style, being knowledgeable about the Goth culture, and being socially involved in the culture. And of course, one could still be all of those things and not be Goth, because being Goth involves a self-declaration. If someone doesn’t want to be Goth, then they’re not, but they can still listen to that style of music and dress in that way. A Goth has to actually want to be called Goth.