How does collaborative divorce differ from mediation?
There are several differences: (1) A neutral mediator sits down with you and your partner and helps you reach solutions. However, there are only three of you. And a mediator cannot give legal advice. Most mediators are not trained in legal, financial, and psychological matters. (2) In the collaborative process, each professional is committed to resolution, but is not required to be completely neutral-as is the mediator. You have your own lawyer who is dedicated to giving you sound legal advice while simultaneously seeking agreement. (3) When necessary, you have available the services of mental health professionals who can coach you and your spouse in communication skills and anger management. Professionals can assist you in relating to your children during the crisis of divorce and in developing emotionally-healthy parenting plans. (4) Your team also includes a financial professional who helps answer all financial questions. The goal of collaborative law is not merely to dissolve your
