How does a judge decide who will be awarded custody of the children?
The courts use the “best interests of the children” standard in assessing a custody situation. If the two of you can work together, then a joint or shared custody arrangement may be right for you and your children. If effective communication between yourself and your spouse is not a reality, sole custody may be the only option. Having the court decide who should have custody is the very last option. The courts also look to whether an individual’s bad acts are acts that have harmed the children.