How does a couple that has been married for 20 years rekindle sexual desire?
It really depends on the state of your relationship. Sometimes the relationship might not be salvageable and if you have major doubts about it consulting a good counselor might be very helpful. However, if you both have the desire to re-kindle passion there is lots that you can do. To start with, you can set up times when you talk about emotional needs you might not have expressed before. If you have not made love for many years you might have to start by re-connecting in a sensuous, non-sexual way to build up the passion. If you feel ready a Tantra coaching session may be extremely valuable.
