How Do You Write A Behavior Contract?
When you are having problems getting your child to obey, a behavior contract can be a good way to lay down expectations, boundaries and consequences. It’s important to write an effective behavior contract to increase the odds of successful behavior modification. Have clear goals for the behavior contract. You can’t write an effective contract if you’re not clear on exactly what you want to accomplish. Know what behaviors you want the child to change and what you want the child to do instead. Allow the child to have some input. Children will be more likely to follow the terms of a behavior contract when they have a hand in its creation. While you need to be the one to prepare the main aspects, leave some room for negotiation. For example, allow the child to help you choose the consequences for breaking the contract rather than simply dictating the punishment yourself. Write out the contract, spelling out the goals, expectations and consequences very clearly. A child cannot abide by a be
