How Do You Uphold Christian Values When Dating?
The media may be full of different representations of what the dating world is like, but most Christians know that their values are a key factor in a successful dating experience. Even in a world where values are diverse and role models scarce, Christians can uphold their values while dating by knowing themselves and communicating effectively. Know your values. Make a list before you enter into a relationship of all of the qualities you know you need in a life partner. These qualities should be general rather than specific. This isn’t a portrait of the ideal man or woman, it’s a set of guidelines. Learn which values are based in your faith and which are personal. Make note of which values you know you will be unable to compromise, as well as which values you may be flexible about. Making this decision ahead of time will help you once you are in the relationship to not feel pressured to make a decision on the spot. Communicate with your partner clearly and openly. Rather than sending si