How Do You Understand Internalized Homophobia When You Are Gay Or Lesbian?
How can a gay or lesbian person be homophobic? Not only is it possible, it’s actually probable. It can be a huge barrier to self-acceptance and even good mental and physical health. Know that internalized homophobia is defined as prejudice against one’s own sexual orientation in a person who is gay or lesbian. In a society that does not fully accept gays, it is not surprising that gay and lesbian people take in negative perceptions of themselves as they grow up and then later, move about the world as adults. Understand that you may not perceive that you have internalized the homophobia around you. You know how your stomach tightens and you hesitate a little when you introduce your partner to someone whose acceptance level is unknown? That’s internalized homophobia at work. Remember that internalized homophobia keeps gay and lesbian people in the closet. It’s difficult to hang on to the conviction that you’re OK when you don’t fully feel you have the right to be happy. Be warned that in
