How do you think people learn good communication skills?
Most people just grew up and did this naturally; they’re just charismatic people I suppose… But there are tons of books to read on the subject, and Debate club in high school helps tremendously. The problem most people have with communication is just say things like ‘um’ or ‘sooo…’ and other random things that have nothing to do with what they’re saying. The best way to fix this is to simply take a breath, and whenever you catch your self saying things like this remind yourself not to. That alone would clear up a large part of ‘bad communication skills’ …
