How Do You Tell The Kids About Separation And Divorce?
Even if you and your spouse are commencing a “civil” separation and eventual divorce, there are few experiences in life more heart-wrenching than having to tell this to your children. Although there are techniques to employ regarding how to tell the kids about separation and divorce, the final reality is that you never really are fully prepared for this task. Nonetheless, you and your spouse must sit down with your kids and discuss your separation and divorce with them sooner rather than later. Decide whether or not your children are best served being told about your separation and divorce together or individually. The guiding factor in this regard is the age of the children. An explanation of the state of your marriage needs to be age appropriate. Therefore, if there is a more significant age difference between your kids (high school and elementary school age children, for example) you will want to consider meeting with them individually or in separate “groups” based on age. Arrange f
