How do you tell a girl that you love her if she loves someone else?
But how can you be so sure that she is truly in love with someone else? I say you let it be her decision whether or not you tell her. Write her an anonymous letter that tells her you are deeply in love with her, but are aware of her feelings for another person. If she wishes to know who you are, then she can respond. The method of her response is up to you – whether it be meeting you somewhere at a certain time, leaving a note in a specific place for you to retrieve, or perhaps you could give a gift with the letter such as a flower or a necklace and instruct her to wear it on a certain day if she wants to learn your identity. This way, if she is uninterested in knowing, you will not take it personally and can choose to move on…but if she is…you never know! Doing it this way puts the ball in her court, but it also adds a little excitement and romance – and no matter how lame it might sound – deep down every girl loves that – TRUST ME.
