How Do You Talk To Kids About Divorce, Separation, Or An Absent Parent?
How to Talk to Kids About Divorce, Separation, or an Absent Parent Wednesday May 14, 2008#spacer{clear:left}#abc #sidebar{margin-top:1.5em}zSB(3,3)The number one rule when talking to kids about divorce, separation, or an absent parent is to tell the truth. Never try to get away with lying, even when you suspect that an altered version of the real story would be easier for your kids to handle. This is because, especially during a time when your kids are already hurting and filled with questions, your children need to know – without a doubt – whom they can trust. And as their parent, you need to be that person for them, even when a white lie would (if only temporarily) be less painful. At the same time, though, you also have to be careful not to give your kids too much information or share opinions that would mar their own perceptions of their relationship with the other parent. As best as you can
How to Talk to Kids About Divorce, Separation, or an Absent Parent Wednesday May 14, 2008#spacer{clear:left}#abc #sidebar{margin-top:1.5em}zSB(3,3)The number one rule when talking to kids about divorce, separation, or an absent parent is to tell the truth. Never try to get away with lying, even when you suspect that an altered version of the real story would be easier for your kids to handle. This is because, especially during a time when your kids are already hurting and filled with questions, your children need to know – without a doubt – whom they can trust. And as their parent, you need to be that person for them, even when a white lie would (if only temporarily) be less painful. At the same time, though, you also have to be careful not to give your kids too much information or share opinions that would mar their own perceptions of their relationship with the other parent. As best as you can
