How Do You Talk To A Friend In A Suspected Abusive Relationship?
If you have an adult friend that you suspect is in an abusive relationship, and you want to help, you will have to talk to her alone. Here are some ideas on how to talk to that friend. When no one else is around, ask your friend about her relationship with her significant other. Let her tell you the good and the bad while you just listen. Ask questions that would help her analyze the health of the relationship. For example, “Do you get together with any of your other girlfriends?” or “Do you still have time for hobbies that you enjoy?” This could get the topic focused on her and what she is missing out on by allowing an abusive relationship to continue. Usually, in an unhealthy relationship, the one being controlled isn’t allowed to be with other friends, family or even have much time to themselves. Ask what qualities she admires about this person. Mention that you are concerned about her because of the differences you’ve noticed in her behavior. List them. If she no longer enjoys outi
