How Do You Support A Spouse Through Officer Candidate School?
It is extremely challenging if your significant other goes through the process of becoming an officer in the military. The process can actually make you stronger as a couple or it can drive you further a part. Here are some tips to help you thrive during this difficult period. Know the basic time line. Each branch is a little different, so search on specialized message boards to determine when your significant other will get liberty (the ability to leave base and have his or her phone back) and family day (when you can visit). The Marines tend to have liberty for about twelve hours on Saturday from 3pm to 3am, and then may have until 7am or noon depending on their duty schedule. If possible, do everything to be around during liberty. If you live far away, plan to be available for a skype conversation or phone call, and if you live close by, plan on being home with him. This is vital to your spouse having something to look forward to on the weekend. When you see your spouse, be prepared
