How Do You Support A Sibling During Divorce?
A brother or sister going through a divorce needs family support. Whether you are close or not, as a sibling you have a special role to play during the divorce. Your sibling is getting lots of advice from lawyers, friends and even the “ex,” so take on the role of providing a safe harbor. Put aside your own feelings about your brother’s or sister’s divorce. Talk about him or her with someone else, but not your sibling. This just isn’t what he or she needs right now. Listen, listen, listen. Remember your sibling is getting lots of pressure during the divorce of the financial and legal variety. He needs to talk and you need to listen without reacting unless asked. Take a deep breath when asked for advice. Remember you are the safe harbor for your sibling and unless you are certain of the advice you are giving, try to present options and food for thought instead of a straight-out declaration on what to do. Forgive the short temper and unkind comments. Your sibling may not be able to vent o
