How Do You Stop Being Depressed About Love?
• Stop the negative spiraling. There is little point being constantly negative about yourself or your chances in love. This is a bad habit and it deserves to be broken. While it is fine to be down and sad every now and then, it’s not fine to have this as your usual temperament. • Be accepting that you can’t make other people into something they are not. This includes trying to make someone love you; it will happen if it’s meant to be but if they change and their love for you also changes, it isn’t a good idea to take out their choices on your own self-esteem. • Be patient. Love is a very varied ideal and no two people have the same notion of what it is, or is not. This is often the reason behind why love relationships don’t always work out because both parties have different viewpoints of what love is and how it should be impacting their lives. In being patient, you can do several important things for yourself: • You can get on with your life and the activities you enjoy • You can cult
