How Do You Say No To Kids?
Our children look to their caregivers to set boundaries and teach values. Part of this task, inevitably, will involve your saying “no.” Follow these steps to do it with firmness and tact. Step 1 Adjust your use of the word “no” over time. In the first year of life, the word “no” is usually reserved for warning your child of dangers he encounters, such as a hot stove. Preschoolers might hear “no” regarding their negative social interactions. Older children and teens hear “no” in response to their material requests. Temper your use of the word “no” as your child’s skills and independence grows. Step 2 Distinguish between reasonable requests and unreasonable requests. Seasoned parents often advise new parents to “choose your battles.” You and your partner should decide what requests are reasonable. If your 5-year-old yearns to jump in puddles every day, perhaps he could be indulged now and then if you have time for a quick clean up before dinner. Step 3 Use the word “no” consistently for
